You can define yourself however you like. Did you know that? If you decide you want to be a foody, start experimenting with food. If you want to be artistic, start painting.
In college you go through a stage of self-discovery. Every path and passion is open to you. But who says it should stop there?
I changed drastically after leaving college. The passions I had in my classes have gone, and new passions have taken their place. Want to reinvent yourself? Want to redefine? Start now. Take small steps to become the person you want to be.
- Want to be a better husband? Start romancing your wife.
- Want to be more spontaneous? Hop in the car and take a road trip now!
- Want to be more artsy? Hang out with artsy people.
It won’t feel natural at first. But hang in there. You’re redefining. It takes time.