I had the privilege of joining a man from Mexico on a podcast last week. He interviewed me about some of my projects for churches and how to infuse creativity into a church that might be resistant to such things.
On these podcasts, I’m an open book. Everything I know that I think could be remotely helpful…I spill it. I’ve been a believer in this concept ever since I read Rework. In the book, they recommend that every company should share every one of their secrets. It’s sort of a Bobby Flay approach. Being known for his chef skills, you’d think he would want to guard his secrets so he can stay on top. But instead he gives it all away, and that’s further solidified his expertise in everyone’s mind. It’s counter-intuitive, but I believe it works.
My new friend was grateful for my candidness. He told me many of the folks he interviews in his country are hesitant to share their special sauce, because they feel they’ve worked hard to develop their style or knowledge. It was sad that church workers aren’t willing to share their secrets with other church workers.
In the US, I think the church has mostly gotten over that closed-hand approach. We’re pretty good at sharing everything we do with everyone. But often, I think we do this with hooks. We ask for people’s email addresses or we try to sell them our newest product. Heck, I know I do it. And there’s not necessarily anything wrong with it.
But when you’re giving with the primary role of getting something in return, doesn’t that negate the goodness of giving in the first place. It’s more about baiting the hook than it is investing in other people.
And I don’t think this just applies to churches. It applies to individuals who might be helping their friends. Companies on their blogs. Leaders on social media.
I want to encourage you to give with the sole purpose of giving. There’s nothing wrong with adding a little hook to the gift. But if your whole reason for giving is to get something in return, people see that. Folks are far more perceptive than we give them credit for. Give to give. Period. And I believe you’ll be surprised what comes back to you.
It’s all about the heart of the gift.
